Do you have a tendency to over-analyze everything you do? Do you continually use introspection trying to figure out how you can do things better or be a better Christian? If you suffer from thinking too much about everything you do in life, then this book will be a good read for you! Jared Mellinger's new book, Think Again, will challenge how you see yourself and the dangers of thinking too much about yourself.
About the book:
About the book:
Evaluating yourself-being mindful of who you are and what you are doing-is necessary and can lead to positive change.
But
what about the dark side of introspection? Do you ever feel weighed
down and exhausted by your own self-analysis? Perhaps you made a
mistake, said a careless word, or even messed up big time. Your
self-examination spirals into a full-blown cross-examination. You keep
revisiting what happened. Your mind circles around the event,
fruitlessly trying to somehow make the outcome different so you don't
feel the embarrassment, shame, and regret.
The
modern self-esteem movement has left us empty and self-focused. We
exhaust our healthy introspection and pervert it into constant
self-evaluation, wrong views of ourselves, self-accusation, and false
guilt. Introspection was never meant to bear such weight.
Think Again offers
real relief from the burden of introspection that so many of us carry
each day. Pastor Jared Mellinger, who tends to overdose on self-analysis
himself, shows us how the hope of the gospel can rescue us from the bad
fruit of unsound introspection. Mellinger's short, story-filled
chapters help readers identify and turn away from unhealthy
introspection.
There is an outward-focused God who delights to rescue an
inward-focused people and lead them into a better way to live. When we
truly understand it, we'll see that the gospel actually sets us free
from thinking about ourselves too much. We can seek after and pray for
the peace and joy-the sanity-that comes from thinking about ourselves
less often.
Think Again includes
practical instructions for self-examination, fighting false guilt,
breaking free from hyper-introspection, and more. Ultimately, Think Again demonstrates
that the solution to thinking too much about ourselves is to look to
Christ, and it gives readers the tools to begin to turn from the mirror.
My Review:
I appreciated how the author could identify with the issue of introspection. And I thought he did a good job of getting the reader to identify this issue in their lives. The author doesn't just stop there with the identification of the problem, but points the reader to the answer which is Christ. I struggle with introspection and it's easy to over-analyze every situation of my life to exhaustion. This introspection only produces insecurity and fear in my life which is far from my actual goal. This book was a great reminder of what I already know, quit focusing on yourself and get your eyes upward on Christ and outward on serving others. Sometimes we just need to be reminded of what we already know.
I will say that at about chapter 8 or so, I was thinking, "hmmm... I thought I already read this." So I would say that some of the material is rather repetitive. Other than that, it was a good read that will remind you of where your focus should really be.
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***I received this free book from Litfuse Publicity Group. I was not required to write a positive review. All opinions are my own.
About the author:
Jared Mellinger joined the Covenant Fellowship Church pastoral team
in 2006, upon graduating from Pastors College of Sovereign Grace
Churches. He became senior pastor in 2008. Jared graduated from Kutztown
University in 2001 with a Bachelor of Science degree in Art Education.
He enjoys reading, rollerblading, poetry, drinking coffee, building
fires, and listening to Josh Garrels. Jared is the author of Think
Again: Relief from the Burden of Introspection. He resides in Glen
Mills, PA with his wife Meghan and their six children.